Always Offer To Help
Offering help will never get old. Remember, even if your host looks like they have everything under control, the chances are that they are probably freaking out and going out of their way to ensure that everything goes well.
Instead of asking, “Can I help with anything?” and putting your host in an awkward position where they are forced to say no out of respect, ask, “What can I do to help?” This feels friendlier and more genuine. Even if your host does not let you help around, you can lay down food on the utensils or try gathering dirty dishes and transporting them to the kitchen.
Don’t Only Offer Alcohol As A Beverage.
While alcohol is great, you must keep in mind that not everyone drinks it. That means that even if you are making your famous martinis or specialty cocktails, you must keep a nonalcoholic option for your guests. Do not question them if they choose not to drink. Instead, please respect their decision and keep the party going.
You can keep the nonalcoholic beverages alongside the other drinks so that your guests do not have to ask you and make a special request specifically. This will only embarrass them or cause inconvenience. In case you plan on keeping alcoholic punch, make sure it is clearly labeled. No one likes their drinks spiked unless they are in the mood for it.
Set Out Extra Bowls
Having extra bowls of plates at a party is a must. People may want to get rid of an olive pit or a shrimp tail without having to carry it around awkwardly or keep asking each other where the garbage bins are.
To keep the atmosphere light and comfortable, try placing tiny bowls or plates near the food. You can even set an example by using a plate to get rid of some food remains so that other people feel comfortable enough to do the same. Without these bowls, people may not even bother eating some of the food, only because they think it will be messy and embarrassing to deal with.
Respect The Seating Arrangements
Casual parties or dinners are much easier to plan as there is no proper seating arrangement. People can sit where ever they want, in whichever room they feel comfortable in. However, if you plan on having a long table arrangement, it would be better to set out your guests’ names in advance and assign seats.
Figuring out where to sit and who to sit with at formal gatherings can be stressful and overwhelming. Instead, try to create a fun atmosphere by splitting some of the loud guests and placing them next to the quieter ones to get to know each other, and you don’t have to deal with awkward silence on one end of the table.
If you’re a guest at such an event, you’re most likely going to be seated with people you know. However, if this is not the case, go along with it. Take the time to get to know the people to your left and right. And lastly, don’t complain about where you’re sitting. Don’t make things difficult for your host.
